My American Automobile Association (AAA) membership expires at the end of the month, and they’ve been peppering me with renewal notices, in the mail, by text, and via email. I’d ignored several, but finally clicked “unsubscribe” a few days ago.And wouldn’t you know it, today came another email from AAA. Being me, I was ready to be annoyed. How many unsubscribes must a man unsubscribe before he is truly unsubscribed? Apparently, the answer is one.
“Dear Douglas,” said the email from AAA, “Yay for doing without a car. I am hoping to do the same.”What the what? The rest of the email seemed to be auto-generated, saying things you’d
expect, like, thank you for 22 years of membership, we’re sorry to lose your
business, and all that rot. A human typed that first line, though. How did they even know I’d gotten rid of my car?Well, scrolling down, I remembered. After clicking “unsubscribe” to their previous email, a box had popped up asking me why, and I’d written, “I am delighted to no longer own a car.”
Turns out, someone at AAA actually reads incoming emails, and “Bruce” is hoping to go car-less, too. That’s pretty cool, isn’t it?
As my membership expires, I’ll leave AAA a good review: We never bought their insurance (other insurance is cheaper) but AAA’s basic membership is terrific. They towed our Chevy, and our previous Chevy, at least a dozen times over those 22 years, always at no charge.But I really am delighted to no longer own a car.♦ ♦ ♦ In the kitchen, I was making peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, when Dean emerged. The odds of an appearance by Dean go way, way up whenever I’m in the kitchen; he has a sixth sense about it.I’ll spare you most of the inanities of our conversation, as it was no different than always, but as he talked and talked and talked, he opened the oven, and took out a tray with four pieces of chicken on it. Breaded chicken, drumsticks and thighs, cooked — perhaps his variation on Shake’n’Bake.The oven was off, though. Room temperature, about 75°. He held the tray in his bare hands, and then, though I hadn’t asked, he explained: “I cooked these yesterday afternoon, let them cool overnight, and now I’ll pop ’em into the microwave and they’ll be an early lunch. They’re very good, people always tell me. Would you like to have a piece?”
I did not have a piece.When Dean cooks, the food tastes OK, but watching him cook is kind of a gross-out. If he drops his
long-handled wooden spoon on the floor, he simply picks it up and resumes
stirring. There are always ants on the shelf where he keeps his many spices and seasonings. When he’s done cooking, dishes stay in the sink for a few days, and then get a quick cold-water rinse. Perhaps I have no right to sneer, because I’m a slob, too. If I was a guy who cooked, I’d cook almost as casually as Dean does.
I’m not a professional chef, though. I never prep food that anyone else will eat, so… watching Dean cook in our kitchen, I have to assume he’s just as sloppy in the restaurant’s kitchen.♦ ♦ ♦ My super high-tech brother loves his gadgets, and now he’s using an automated cat feeder. It seals off the cat’s food until a pre-programmed time, when the barrier is lifted and the cat can have dinner. And ten minutes later, it seals shut again.
Telling me this, my brother said, “The cat has learned to tell time.” After a few days on the automated feeding schedule, his cat now stands in front of the machine and starts meowing 15 minutes before feeding time.That’s cute and funny, my brother thinks, but what if the machine isn’t giving the animal enough time or enough food? What if the cat’s still hungry when the lid seals and food access is cut off? My brother says he knows how much a cat should eat. Me, I don’t know how much a cat should eat. That’s for the cat to decide.
All the dogs and cats in my life, and there’ve been plenty, have had tall piles of food in a bowl, and could eat any time they’re hungry. I eat any time I’m hungry, sometimes when I’m not, and I wouldn’t want an electric timer blocking access to my next meal or snack.Then again, I eat too much and too often, which is why I’m fat and always have been. Maybe a timer on the fridge would be a good idea.But my cat? Don’t be messing with my cat. She has a bowl piled tall with food, and she grazes all day, and I would never tell her she can’t.7/22/2023
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